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Divorce Rate - higher for dinks?(5 posts)

Divorce Rate - higher for dinks?Fez
Nov 14, 2003 11:58 AM
That is, dual income, no kids.

Grossly simplifying, but does having no kids and a career make each spouse self sufficient enough so that its easier to divorce and not work harder at staying together?
Less tug of war ropes, that's for sure... nmNo_sprint
Nov 14, 2003 12:09 PM
Too simplistic.eyebob
Nov 14, 2003 12:24 PM
People (with and without kids) get divorced for a myriad of reasons. A better question would be, are the divorces less messy (financially and emotionally) for DINKS. I'd say yes.

the less they have, the more they fight....(nm)FTMD
Nov 14, 2003 12:43 PM
Do you have kids?ms
Nov 14, 2003 1:15 PM
Kids and less income (i.e., going from two incomes to one or just having to make two incomes pay for the spouses and the kids) both put stresses on a marriage that dinks don't have. I have seen enough improbable marriages survive all kinds of problems and seemingly perfect ones fall apart for what appears to be no good reason at all that I think that it is hard to generalize why some people divorce and others don't. But, based on my own experience (one marriage of 16 years -- still together), I think that marriage with a double income no kids would have been easier than a marriage with kids. I love my kids and would not trade them in for the world, but I also can say that most of our disputes since our oldest daughter was born 14 years ago have had some relationship to our children.